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    • briones

      Posted at 5:16 pm by jasminedesirees, on February 12, 2013

      On Sunday we went to check out Briones, a regional park in Martinez, CA. Sometimes I get so caught up in daydreaming about all of the places in the world that I want to visit, that I forget that I live in a pretty amazing place already.

      There is so much to do in California, and it’s kind of neat to think that the same roads you drive down every day could lead you somewhere amazing, if you just remember to make a different turn every once in awhile.

      me: do you think we could climb all the way up there? derek: no.
      jealous
      favourite shirt
      we saw a coyote, and one random cow, I think he was lost
      Posted in California, exploring, life, USA | 0 Comments | Tagged briones, California, East Bay, hiking
    • Language is a virus

      Posted at 4:09 pm by jasminedesirees, on February 11, 2013

      From Language is a Virus, writing exercise of the day:

      Compose a list of familiar phrases, or phrases that have stayed in your mind for a long time–from songs, from poems, from conversation.

      Here is my list, and how long they’ve been hanging out in my head.

      1. She was just a really good artist, painting pretty pictures inside my head- my friend Tanner, 6 years ago

      2. The Sharks? You mean, like Shark Week?- my friend Amanda, last week

      3. Either build your dream, or someone will hire you to build theirs- quote, yesterday

      4. Fear of heights is really only fear of self, you don’t trust yourself not to jump- White Oleander, 10 years ago

      5. Me: Would you marry me with this on my head? Derek: I’d marry you with anything on your head- 10 months ago

      6. You think I need love? Honey, men need to be loved. Women, women need to be wanted.- Gemma Teller, SOA, 4 months ago

      7. She had a weakness for writers and I, well I was never that good with words anyway- Lucero- 4 years ago

      This site has tons of really neat writing exercises, to help with writer’s block, or just for fun.

      Posted in inspiration, loveliness | 0 Comments | Tagged inspiration, quotes, writing, writing exercise
    • favourites

      Posted at 3:53 pm by jasminedesirees, on February 8, 2013

      Here are a few things that are making me happy right now:

      This excerpt from Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn:

      “We were the first human beings who would never see anything for the first time. We stare at the wonders of the world, dull-eyed, underwhelmed. Mona Lisa, the Pyramids, the Empire State Building. Jungle animals on attack, ancient icebergs collapsing, volcanoes erupting. I can’t recall a single amazing thing I have seen firsthand that I didn’t immediately reference to a movie or TV show. A fucking commercial. You know the awful singsong of the blase: Seeeen it.

      I’ve literally seen it all, and the worst thing, the thing that makes me want to blow my brains out, is: The secondhand experience is always better. The image is crisper, the view is keener, the camera angle and the soundtrack manipulate my emotions in a way reality can’t anymore. I don’t know that we are actually human at this point, those of us who are like most of us, who grew up with TV and movies and now the Internet. If we are betrayed, we know the words to say; when a loved ones dies, we know the words to say. If we want to play the stud or the smart-ass or the fool, we know the words to say. We are all working from the same dog-eared script.

      It’s very difficult era in which to be a person, just a real actual person instead of a collection of personality traits selected from an endless Automat of characters.

      And if all of us are play-acting, there can be no such thing as a soul mate, because we don’t have genuine souls.”

      I love writing like this, the first time I read this passage I got chills all the way down to my toes.

      Love You Forever by Robert Munsch. I get this book for every person I know who is having a baby, it’s the greatest children’s book ever written. I can still remember my mom reading it to us when I was little. Robert Munsch has tons of great children’s books, my favourite are Moira’s Birthday, The Paperbag Princess, Something Good, and David’s Father.

      A list of the best children’s books would not be complete without There’s a Monster at the End of This Book, with a shout out to my auntie Sherri, who does the best Grover voice, ever.

      This book, Life: The Classic Collection that I bought as a birthday present to myself 2 years ago. It has all the most famous photographs ever printed in Life magazine, and some of them are removable so you can take them out and hang them in your house. I recently rediscovered it (we will have some unpacked boxes) and put up my favourites right away. I need to get frames, but every time I go to Target I end up buying a toboggan, a fishing rod and a new serving tray, so I just stuck them up with fun-tac for now.

      This video (apparently there is a bit of a literary theme for this post):

      I like a girl who reads:

      Posted in books, favourites | 0 Comments
    • you are my best three years

      Posted at 5:25 pm by jasminedesirees, on February 7, 2013

      Three years ago today I watched a boy walking across the room towards me with the warmest smile and the biggest brown eyes I’d ever seen. Now, I’m lucky enough to wake up beside him every day.

      Thank you for making me smile when I would rather be sad, for letting me put my cold toes on you sometimes, and for taking the empty toothpaste and leaving the full one for me.

      Thank you for always supporting me in anything I choose to do, no matter how silly or crazy it may seem. Whether it be starting a blog, deciding to run a marathon, or trying to pack us up and move us to Australia, knowing your answer will always be some version of “let’s do it” makes it so much easier for me to try for all the things I want to do, and I hope I can always support you the same way.

      The last year and a half, especially has been pretty tumultuous, and through all of it you have been unfailingly hopeful, positive, and a constant source of strength for me, even with everything else you had going on. I’m so proud of all you have accomplished, and I know there are lots of good things ahead for you, and for us, together.

      Thank you for the last 3 years, here is to at least 3 more. errrrrr, kidding! I love you madly, xx.

      Probably my favourite picture, ever.

       

      Posted in life, love | 0 Comments | Tagged husband, life, love, marriage, wedding
    • superbowl weekend

      Posted at 5:00 pm by jasminedesirees, on February 6, 2013

      We had a very busy weekend last weekend, my brother in law and his girlfriend are having a baby in April, and the baby shower was Saturday.

      Cantaloupe baby head, the picture isn’t the greatest but it was super cute

      Sooo many presents

      Strawberry and lemon cupcakes (but sadly, none for me)

      The In-Laws

      In case you were wondering, this is what you eat on Superbowl Sunday when  you can’t eat any of the chicken wings, delicious dips or brownies.. I was especially sad about the brownies, but I made this amazing fruit salad with strawberries, blackberries, kiwi, pineapple, raspberries, and grapes, and no disgusting melon. I love fruit salad and would order it all the time but usually it is half honeydew melon, half cantaloupe with one strawberry on top.

      I hate cantaloupe, it’s been pointed out that I may have a irrational hatred for it, I can’t even be in the same room with it because the smell makes me sick. But my fruit salad was delicious, and between that, grilled chicken and veggie skewers, I still managed to eat myself into a mini-food coma.

      Posted in food, life | 0 Comments
    • quinoa salad

      Posted at 4:52 pm by jasminedesirees, on February 5, 2013

      Since I’ve been doing my cleanse, I’ve had to be a bit less discriminating about some of the things I’m willing to eat, if only out of sheer boredom. I’m kind of a picky eater, so there are lots of things that are probably delicious together that I just would never think to combine.

      My girlfriend turned me on to this recipe for a quick, delicious lunch, and as I was getting pretty sick of quinoa, tamari and veggies every day, I was excited to have a new option.

      You will need:

      2 cups cooked quinoa
      4-5 dried apricots (avoid brand with added sugar or preservatives)
      2 tablespoons dried cranberries
      1 handful of slivered unsalted almonds
      1 tblsp olive oil
      1-2 tblsp balsamic vinegar

      Chop up the apricots, then combine all dry ingredients in a bowl. Drizzle with olive oil and balsamic vinegar, mix and serve.

      This salad can be served warm or cold, I’ve eaten it both ways and it is super simple to make, and delicious.

      My only word of caution would be to add the balsamic vinegar a little at a time, I added too much once and it was NOT an enjoyable experience.

      Enjoy!

      Apparently I need a new cutting board

      Posted in food, nutrition, recipes | 0 Comments
    • want

      Posted at 5:39 pm by jasminedesirees, on February 4, 2013
      Just a few things I’ve been lusting after lately. Yes, I have posted about these shoes before, and I still haven’t bought them, but I think I’m going to get them as a birthday present to myself. The sweater is so cute, and on sale right now, and I am currently hauling my brand new camera around wrapped in a tshirt in a red “fanny pack” with no padding that I used on my trip to South Africa a few years ago, so a new camera bag is basically a necessity at this point.
      But mostly, I want the black and white striped H/M dress. I would do dirty, unspeakable things for that dress, and I’ve visited, called and harassed every store in the Bay area and I can’t find it anywhere.
      Skechers- Raise the Bar Wedge
      Forever 21- Maxi Dress
      Aritzia- Bryce Sweater
      H&M- Striped Dress
      Ona- Camera Bag

      Posted in fashion | 0 Comments
    • hungry for change

      Posted at 5:02 pm by jasminedesirees, on February 1, 2013
      After my little rant last week, I was still feeling pretty frustrated about nutrition. I know I don’t eat the best all the time, and I know that eating as much chocolate as I do is probably not ideal, but I KNOW that. What I want to know is how I should be eating most of the time, so that I can sometimes eat desserts and cheesy things (mmm lasagna) and know that I’m still eating as healthy as I could be, at least 80% of the time.

      I started reading the book Clean by Alejandro Junger and it had some great suggestions for ways to get started eating healthier, and even some recipes. I also watched Hungry for Change, a documentary (available on Netflix) and it was actually kind of crazy how it addressed a lot of the things I was talking about last week. I would definitely recommend this film for anyone who wants to learn more about nutrition.
       
      The film talks about how our diet now is so much different from how it was back when people had to hunt or find everything they ate, at every meal. Our food used to be very nutrient rich, and low calorie, things like lean proteins, veggies, fruits, etc. Now our food is low nutrition, but very high calorie, so even though people are eating so many more calories, they aren’t getting the nutrition they need, so they can be overweight, but actually starving to death from lack of proper nutrition.
       
      It also explained how, even though our environment and the availability of food has changed drastically, our body is still designed the way it originally was (basically). So we are designed to gain weight whenever there is excess food because we used to need it, there could be a drought or long winter, and it might be a long time before our next meal, so storing up calories was very necessary. But now, our body still stores up calories in order to keep us nourished when food is not available, but now, for most people in America, there isn’t a time when we don’t have food, so we just keep storing.
       
      The one thing that really stuck with me from the film, though, is about all of the additives and preservatives that can be found in a most processed foods.. except Peanut M&M’s right? Those are still ok? RIGHT?
       
      It’s actually gets a little scary when you start to really look at the food labels, and see what some of them contain. With the help of Google, obviously, otherwise I wouldn’t know what most of that stuff even was. And I guess that’s the problem? If you really don’t know what something is, why would you put it in your mouth? Or into your children’s mouth’s?
       
      Since I started reading the book, I’ve been trying out the “cleanse” that it suggests. Well, sort of. It’s like a pre-cleanse cleanse called the Elimination Diet, and basically you just cut out sugar, processed foods, dairy, read meat and wheat products. At first I was like, but what’s left? But there is actually a lot you can eat, mostly free range chicken, wild caught fish, and organic fruits and veggies, you just have to get creative, because it can get a little boring (I actually made fish for supper last night… this has NEVER happened before, ever).
       
      It’s not bad for a “cleanse”, because you still get to eat, which is a necessity for me. I’ve been having a smoothie every morning (recipe here) with fruit as a snack before lunch. For lunch it’s been either quinoa, veggies and chicken, or this really great quinoa salad my friend turned me on to (recipe here) and I eat almonds as a snack. For dinner, it’s chicken and veggies, and I drink TONS of green tea all day.
       
      I don’t really know what I’m expecting I guess, I’ve been doing it for a week, and I can tell I’ve lost weight, but I have also felt a bit more tired, which can be a side effect. I guess what I am hoping is that after 2 more weeks, I’ll feel so amazing that I will want to keep eating like this most of the time, with occasional trips to the Cheesecake Factory, for special occasions.

      This Sunday is the Superbowl though, hopefully I can keep it up! I’ll keep you posted.
       

      If anyone has seen the film or read this book, I’d love to hear your thoughts.

      Posted in food, nutrition, thoughts | 0 Comments
    • smooth operator

      Posted at 5:45 pm by jasminedesirees, on January 31, 2013

      I’ve been doing a “cleanse” for the last 8 days (more on that tomorrow) but I’ve been starting the day with a fruit and veggie smoothie. It’s only been just over a week, but I can already tell I’ve lost weight, and most importantly, the reason I decided to try this in the first place, I just feel better.

      It’s kind of hard to explain, I just feel lighter, never bloated or full or “gross” as I like to say, and I don’t get “starving” anymore. One of the things I read before starting this was that it can put you back in touch with the real feeling of hunger, because you aren’t eating for cravings, or out of boredom, and there is nothing really “fancy” to eat, so you are just eating basic food that you need to not be hungry, and to get vitamins and nutrients.

      I still have almost 2 weeks left, so I’m excited to see how I feel in a couple more weeks, and if I can find any really noticeable changes.

      Here is my morning smoothie recipe:

      2 cups coconut water
      1 large handful of kale
      1 sprig of fresh Parsley
      1 tsp coconut oil
      1 tsp ground flax seed
      1 tblsp chia seeds
      4 frozen peach sections
      1 handful of frozen mixed berries

      Combine coconut water, kale and parsley in blender, blend well to break up greens. In a separate glass, mix one tblsp chia seeds with 1 tblsp coconut water, set aside. Mix remaining ingredients into blender. Lastly, pour in chia seeds, which will have combined with the coconut water to make a gel. Blend and serve.

      Soaking chia seeds
      Yum

      I’ve been making it every morning for over a week now, and I like to play around with the ingredients a bit. Sometimes I omit the mixed berries, and instead add in 1 whole peeled kiwi, which is really delicious. I also want to try mixing in other veggies, like cucumber.

      Sometimes I will add a little bit of Naked juice Green Machine for a some extra fruit, but just a splash or two.

      Posted in food, nutrition, recipes | 0 Comments
    • something up my sleeve…

      Posted at 5:42 pm by jasminedesirees, on January 30, 2013

      I’ve been seeing a lot of cute sweaters with elbow patches lately, so I decided to try to make one of my own. I bought this green shirt at Forever 21 a couple of years ago, because I absolutely loved the colour, but it never really looked right on me, and I was going to get rid of it in my spring closet clean out. Instead, I used it to make some patches for my favourite black cardigan.

      Sweater, Target


      I used a piece of card stock to cut out a heart, and then traced it onto the fabric and cut out the shapes.

      Then I put the cardigan on, and marked the center of my elbow with a pen, and sewed on the patches.

      The finished product.




      Posted in DIY, fashion | 0 Comments
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