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    • 2014

      Posted at 8:26 pm by jasminedesirees, on January 3, 2014

      I was just reading back through some of my old posts from last year, and remembered this post about all of the things I wanted to accomplish in 2013.

      The one thing on my list that I absolutely wanted to do was the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer, which I did with my mom and sisters in September. I also wanted to take a class, and I took several last year including pottery, chocolate making and a blog design course online.

      I did work on my spanish a bit more than I previously had, but not nearly as much as I wanted to, so that will have to stay on the list for this year. I did, however, learn to make pico de gallo, and it was friggin’ delicious.

      My other goal for 2014 was to eat more adventurously. It was a pretty broad goal, that could mean almost anything really. I did eat fish a few times, I even made it myself at home once, generally though, I’m going to have to call that one a fail.

      For 2014, I would like to:

      1. Work on my Spanish. For real this time.

      2. Travel. I have some really big plans for 2014, they aren’t ready for sharing yet but it’s going to be a very exciting year.

      3. Volunteer. I’ve volunteered with Habitat for Humanity, Foster a Dream and a couple of other charities a few times, but I’d like to do it a lot more. It’s fun, it makes you feel good, and it helps someone else, so there is really no downside.

      4. Get wedding dress pictures done. I’ve been wanting to get some cool, artistic photos taken of me in my wedding dress ever since the wedding (so a year and a half now) but I keep putting it off.

      5. Finish a novel. I’ve been working on writing a novel for a few years now, I actually have two going because I kept switching back on the plot in completely opposite ways to the point where it was really two totally different stories. I’ve been scared to talk about it or tell anyone about it but I’ve decided that maybe posting about it will give me the push I need to finally finish. I don’t even care if it’s never seen or read by another living soul, I just want to know that I was able to do it.

      6. Experiment artistically. It is entirely possible that I have no artistic talent whatsoever, but in the last year I’ve started playing around with painting and pottery, and even though nothing I have made so far will never been seen by anyone (except my lovely husband who adores all of my experimental endeavours. Probably.) I think that the attempt can be just as important as the outcome. Plus, it’s fun.

      7. Photograph things. I bought myself a really nice camera last year for Christmas, and even though I absolutely love it, and just the fact that I use it instead of the old battered point and shoot that I used to take all my pictures with has improved my photographs exponentially, I still don’t really know how to use it. There are tons of cheap photography classes around, and even free meet ups where you can learn about photography, so there is really no excuse, except for possibly that the entire series of Friends is on Netflix and I can’t leave the house or shower until I finish watching it.

      It’s probably unlikely that I’ll be able to do all of these things as well as I’d like to be able to, but it’s important to set goals for yourself, even if it’s only so you can see how much farther you still have to go.

       
      Posted in happiness, life, travel | 0 Comments | Tagged 2014, art, goals, happiness, life, travel, writing
    • bucket list from my 13 year old self

      Posted at 4:29 pm by jasminedesirees, on January 25, 2013

      I was organizing my dresser a few days ago and I came across my “diary” (for lack of a better word) from when I was younger.  It’s mostly just a collection of quotes, favourite things, and information I found interesting, and some story ideas, but I also wrote myself a “bucket list” of things to do in order to have a successful life.

      Apparently my 13 year old self was a bit worried I wouldn’t be able to stay on track, and thought I could use a little extra help.

      Here is the list:

      1. Learn to play one song on the guitar
      2. See a line brawl
      3. Own a library card
      4. Read every V.C. Andrews book
      5. Buy a Shakira CD
      6. Discover the perfect kiss
      7. Own a wooden salad bowl
      8. Go skinnydipping
      9. Eat a whole meal with nothing but chocolate
      10. Wakeboard
      11. Talk on the phone in the tub
      12.Knit something
      13. Marry someone I love
      14.See the Riders win the grey cup
      15. Paint my bedroom lavender
      16. Have a strapless dress
      17. Bungee jump
      18. Get something pierced
      19. Try to do something nice for someone everyday
      20. Have perfect abs
      21. Have a picnic
      22. Write a book
      23. Surf
      24. Skate in Rockefeller Center
      25. Be addicted to something
      26. Break up with someone
      27. Have twin girls
      28. Dance in the rain
      29. Do a triathlon
      30. Go to Australia
      31. Make an article of clothing and wear it in public
      32. Drink champagne in the bathtub
      33. Meet Julia Roberts
      34. Skydive
      35. Get roses every Valentine’s day
      36. Stop making bad decisions
      37. Be beautiful
      38. Be smart
      39. Go to an art museum in France
      40. Figure out how to order a complicated coffee at Starbucks without sounding like an idiot
      41. Hear a song by PJ Harvey
      42. Go to the ballet
      43. Own a cappucino machine
      44. Burn a CD
      45. Buy something a Pier 1
      46. Own a little black dress
      47. Be a bridesmaid
      48. Spit off the Eiffel Tower
      49. Fan myself with a large amount of money
      50. Eat Creme Brulee
      51. Go to a concert
      52. Have a bead curtain
      53. Learn to read tea leaves
      54. Hold a monkey
      55. Have a huge library
      56. Own a purse and not lose it
      57. Go deep sea diving
      58. Own an old fashioned hat box
      59. See a movie with Marilyn Monroe in it
      60. Watch the Lord of the Rings movies simultaneously
      61. Improve my vocabulary
      62. Do yoga
      63. Learn Spanish
      64. Have my book published
      65. Live in a foreign country
      66. Own entire series of Sex and the City on DVD
      67. Plant wildflowers
      68. Read Jane Eyre
      69. Go to Versailles
      70. Learn to salsa dance
      71. Be a good cook
      72. Go to Brazil
      73. Go to a belly dancing class
      74. Go to Tahiti
      75. Graduate from Universtiy
      76. Get my Master’s Degree
      77. Run a marathon
      78. Go to Greece
      79. Go to Europe
      80. Get published in a magazine
      81. Get a tattoo
      82. Buy a real camera and learn how to use it
      83. Work on a Hollywood movie set
      84. Drink a martini

      So that’s it, the road map laid out for my life by yours truly. While I take issue with some of them now (I don’t really know that I want twin girls!) 56 out of 84 isn’t too bad.

      I may not ever have perfect abs, but I’ve definitely discovered the perfect kiss. I still have a bit of work to do, I’m not really sure how to go about meeting Julia Roberts, but maybe if I get to work on a Hollywood movie set, I can kill 2 birds with one stone. All in all, I think my 13 year old self would approve.

      Posted in life | 1 Comment | Tagged bucket list, goals, life, young adult
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